Thalia said...

I'm a big fan of keeping on fighting. I'm hoping that the fighting bears fruit for you soon.

Meg said...

I'm not even sure there was another option but fight.

Bea said...

Thanks, Thalia.

Meg - there's always another option. You may not think it's an acceptable option, but knowing I had/have other choices keeps me going sometimes.


Bea said...

Oh - that wasn't meant to sound harsh, Meg! Sorry I just re-read it. Try not to emphasise the first "You". It's meant to be a rather non-specific pronoun referring to the person faced with the options at the time, not *you meg*.

Anyway, these are just different ways of thinking about things - some people get through things better if they tell themselves they "have to" do it. I find it better if I tell myself I don't.

In the end, we're all just trying to work out which way of thinking keeps us sane.


Just another Jenny said...

You are very right. When I want to quit I think about my someday children that are out there waiting.

Your past the half way mark. Wishing all the best for you!

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