tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post5750683429464802413..comments2023-08-26T01:04:43.031+10:00Comments on Infertile Fantasies: The Spice of Life *Updated*Beahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11877513815828460269noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-24719349708743542192007-03-16T02:30:00.000+10:002007-03-16T02:30:00.000+10:00I have been reading your blog for days, trying to ...I have been reading your blog for days, trying to figure out what to say and then I realized in saying nothing I show you that I might not care...and I do, a lot. I am so sorry, I am crossing my fingers, I am staying optimisitc for you and I hanging onto hope , just in case you need to let go for a minute of two. <BR/><BR/>(Hug)Kirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17894442143508446312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-44110651897597791182007-03-15T12:18:00.000+10:002007-03-15T12:18:00.000+10:00Shit, Bea--and please don't take this the wrong wa...Shit, Bea--and please don't take this the wrong way because I am happy for your friend (hi! Congratulations!). But when I saw the update, I thought it was for your pregnancy. Is your next appointment this Friday?Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-24019643883367345662007-03-15T07:01:00.000+10:002007-03-15T07:01:00.000+10:00Bea, just catching up on you...good Lord. This is...Bea, just catching up on you...good Lord. This is all so hard.<BR/><BR/>I'm thinking of you, my dear.<BR/><BR/>[[hugs]]Watsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13200039011136695507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-21820030202646296192007-03-14T23:45:00.000+10:002007-03-14T23:45:00.000+10:00"And I need something to convince me it might be d..."And I need something to convince me it might be different one day."<BR/><BR/>Now, if only I could find the words to tell you how very much I hope this is true!beaglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627886826215379414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-86678407897622027642007-03-14T23:13:00.000+10:002007-03-14T23:13:00.000+10:00Thinking of you, Bea, as you go through this.Thinking of you, Bea, as you go through this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-79343990800530997522007-03-14T21:17:00.000+10:002007-03-14T21:17:00.000+10:00I'm with Jules.I'm with Jules.Baby Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283845137728737575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-14305346135245071402007-03-14T19:37:00.000+10:002007-03-14T19:37:00.000+10:00Someday, someday...You said that you have rarely b...Someday, someday...<BR/><BR/>You said that you have rarely been as happy about someone else's pregnancy. After Nut, there are only a few who I feel the same.<BR/><BR/>You are one of those.Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06324703617330026036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-13228301001018543032007-03-14T15:30:00.000+10:002007-03-14T15:30:00.000+10:00I'm sorry you're still in limbo Bea. I also didn'...I'm sorry you're still in limbo Bea. I also didn't realise you'd had this 4 out of 5 times. I'm so sorry. I really really hope this little one is different. I so want a happy ending for you. Thinking of you xJWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07000365791603789983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-42631085043359618792007-03-14T14:27:00.000+10:002007-03-14T14:27:00.000+10:00Thinking of you.Nuts story is very hopeful and rea...Thinking of you.<BR/><BR/>Nuts story is very hopeful and really hope you follow her lead.ColourYourWorldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01869194928164916281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-2696156759484598902007-03-14T13:49:00.000+10:002007-03-14T13:49:00.000+10:00I'm with My Reality, we just have to believe in ou...I'm with My Reality, we just have to believe in our "someday" to get through today.Baby Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283845137728737575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-6661839455932408122007-03-14T10:52:00.000+10:002007-03-14T10:52:00.000+10:00I hate limbo... my hope is that you get some defin...I hate limbo... my hope is that you get some definite answers soon.Samihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17571824699335677531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-89615248920917917852007-03-14T09:16:00.000+10:002007-03-14T09:16:00.000+10:00It might be different someday. Just keep believin...It might be different someday. Just keep believing that. <BR/><BR/>I do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-22239404676762329992007-03-14T09:12:00.000+10:002007-03-14T09:12:00.000+10:00Oh bea. I am so sorry to hear your symptoms are g...Oh bea. I am so sorry to hear your symptoms are gone. I know how utterly terrible that feels and it sucks that you have had this happen over and over. Any chance of a 2nd opinion as to why it keeps occuring? Seems like there ought to be a better way than having you re-live it over and over. I am wishing you the best :)elliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01956209841026195618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-77679935074943773812007-03-14T06:01:00.000+10:002007-03-14T06:01:00.000+10:00When you make a tally like that, 4 low positives i...When you make a tally like that, 4 low positives in 5 attempts, that sounds so incredibly cruel. That would be because it is. <BR/><BR/>'Unlucky' is almost impossible to buy as an explanation. Studies or no studies. <BR/><BR/>To put it disrespectfully, how much scientific value can studies about niche cases in IF have? Aren't the test populations always too small? <BR/><BR/>Art, more than science, indeed.<BR/><BR/>Still, how painful the wait may be, it isn't over until it's over. And I'm still holding out some hope for you, that you beat the odds this time.Lut C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03893061829410958985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-67260466785681834802007-03-14T04:50:00.000+10:002007-03-14T04:50:00.000+10:00Bea, I didn't realize you'd been in a similar situ...Bea, I didn't realize you'd been in a similar situation so many times :-( <BR/><BR/>I still hope things turn out better this time.Rachel Inbarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06605780418673759318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-85713850709830190682007-03-14T03:36:00.000+10:002007-03-14T03:36:00.000+10:00I'm sorry, I'm just so sorry things are looking so...I'm sorry, I'm just so sorry things are looking so symptomless.Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-13134460946781796412007-03-14T03:04:00.000+10:002007-03-14T03:04:00.000+10:00I want this to be the one day that things are diff...I want this to be the one day that things are different for you! I really hope you get some answers soon.Somewhat Ordinaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09701338805685025735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-24023591418953954872007-03-14T01:47:00.000+10:002007-03-14T01:47:00.000+10:00Thinking of you.Thinking of you.GLouisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15146524259296901512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-59434807383129214152007-03-14T00:56:00.000+10:002007-03-14T00:56:00.000+10:00Oh, Bea, I'm so sorry the symptoms disappeared. W...Oh, Bea, I'm so sorry the symptoms disappeared. When is your next beta?<BR/><BR/>I, too, have heard the "bad luck" hypothesis from several doctors (including my current RE) and it makes me want to sit up and howl everytime. At some point, bad luck has to be more than that - a diagnosis has to be found.<BR/><BR/>I hope you find yours soon.Adriennehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12290007044439581358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-29788145838722750652007-03-13T22:42:00.000+10:002007-03-13T22:42:00.000+10:00This limbo you're in is inhuman... I know the yea...This limbo you're in is inhuman... I know the yearning for answers only too well- and I hope that soon you get yours. xMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00433861868469484062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-90543066393771814882007-03-13T22:19:00.000+10:002007-03-13T22:19:00.000+10:00I really wish there was something I could do, some...I really wish there was something I could do, something someone could figure out to help you out in this situation. No one should have to go through that much heartbreak. Even though I know the chances are small, I hope that things pull through for you.Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02799401502134619497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-3064472757498222702007-03-13T22:00:00.000+10:002007-03-13T22:00:00.000+10:00Bea - as it turns out, the science in getting wome...Bea - as it turns out, the science in getting women pregnant with sticky babies is not all that much a science as much as it is an art. It could be any number of factors - perhaps a combination of your embryos AND the environment. The thing is, no one will really know. <BR/><BR/>Nothing is certain... and it's really hard to keep trying. But I have hope that it won't always be like this.<BR/><BR/>Perhaps an endometrial biopsy and maybe a new fresh cycle (of course adjusted to ensure you don't get OHSS) will help. Do something different this time perhaps.<BR/><BR/>Ugh. I wish I could help in real life. I am SO SO SO sorry that you have to deal with this yet again. :(<BR/><BR/>xxSerenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17765237663006604157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25184159.post-24890825840103945572007-03-13T21:54:00.000+10:002007-03-13T21:54:00.000+10:00I wish there was an explanation, it is utterly un-...I wish there was an explanation, it is utterly un-human to keep trying to walk forwards with no explanation of what's happened and what might happen again. <BR/><BR/>I am still hopeful for you, just a little tiny bit, because I know that the signs aren't good but I also know that at some point they might just align in the right direction.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.com